Family Education Says Thrifty

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Brief introductionNew Year's money, Han New Year's customs, meaning to ward off evil spirits and drive away ghosts, bless peace. The original intention of the New Year's money was to suppress evil and drive away evil spirits. Because people believe that children are susceptible to sneaky victims, they use New Year's money to drive away evil spirits, help children celebrate the New Year safely, and wish children health and peace in the new year. I remember when I was young, I was looking forward to the Chinese New Year, because the family conditions were not very good at that time, and the standard of living was not high.

New Year's money, Han New Year's customs, meaning to ward off evil spirits and drive away ghosts, bless peace. The original intention of the New Year's money was to suppress evil and drive away evil spirits. Because people believe that children are susceptible to sneaky victims, they use New Year's money to drive away evil spirits, help children celebrate the New Year safely, and wish children health and peace in the new year.

I remember when I was young, I was looking forward to the Chinese New Year, because the family conditions were not very good at that time, and the standard of living was not high, so I could wear new clothes, eat a lot of delicious food, and my parents and elders would give me New Year's money, not to mention how happy and happy I was

Nowadays, with the improvement of living standards and the influence of national policies, the family is basically a child, who has been pampered and pampered by his parents and four old people since birth. These little princesses and little princes, whatever their parents want, they give unconditionally. The New Year's money is as little as a few thousand, and as much as tens of thousands. How can parents reasonably guide their children to use New Year's money? Parents are always complaining that their children are disobedient, ignorant, and do not know how to cherish. I have paid so much for you, I want to satisfy you with everything, I love you so much, why are you disobedient? It makes me so sad!

The Guru said, "Pain and happiness have a cause. We should start from the cause and change from the cause. If you can make a good choice between cause and effect, and then you will stop all bad deeds and do noble deeds, you will have this life and the next. You can be happy. Otherwise, it is impossible for you to attain happiness because the causes are not sufficient."

Every parent says that I love my child, so how can I really love my child?

The Guru replied: Nowadays parents are too doting on their children and take them too seriously. "It's my own! It's the only one!" If you tell her to let go, she gets angry. "This can't be done, everything else can be put down, but my son can't be put down." Let you go, not let you give up. You can benefit him and you can protect him, but protect him with compassion and not with selfishness and greed.

You can do anything for your children now, but your children are not moved at all, and even resent you. Why? Because you are selfish and greedy. "Oops! That's not right, I'm selfless to my children, and I don't ask for anything in return!" Why do you love them so much and take care of them? For it is "mine," my children, my own son. Because of my attachment and love, you can't get rid of this fate and can't repay this debt.

Now these parents are so pathetic. In fact, sometimes it is also self-inflicted, blindly doting, refusing to let go, selfish and greedy. Why is it selfish and greedy? Because it's my own ego, I'm doing tricks. You are so good to them and have done so much for them, why do they not even have the slightest gratitude, and even resent you? It's because there is no sincerity. If you care for them and take care of them with sincerity and compassion, it is impossible for them not to be moved. Only in this way can we get rid of the debt, otherwise it is impossible.

If you are greedy for your children and relatives now, the day you are about to leave, you will definitely not be able to let go, and if you are nostalgic to leave, you will become a king ghost, and you will not be able to leave for the time being. Because you can't give it up, you can't let it go. You always want to go back to see him, and you want to protect him, but as soon as you go to see them, something will happen, which is what people often call "haunted", which is actually hurting them. Let go to get, never have to give up.

There is nothing wrong with you loving these relatives, but you must love selflessly, so that you can influence them and benefit them. If you don't really get together, it's called "when is the time for retribution", which is also called reincarnation. There is no real happiness in samsara.

You practice well, let go of your ego, accumulate good fortune, and increase your wisdom. Your good fortune will come up, and the child will naturally be happy; Your wisdom will come up, and your children will be lucky. Although each has its own causes, encounters and consequences, you have a special fate between you, and it is easy for you to influence each other. If they are not good, they will inevitably become an obstacle for you; If you practice well and the obstacles are removed, they will be affected by you. Therefore, it is necessary to think about the sake of relatives and children with sincerity, which is the fundamental way to solve the problem. ”

— Dazhen Khenpo

It turned out that there was something wrong with my parenting style. As the saying goes, parents are their children's first teachers, and parents should set a good example for their children. In life, we should first be thrifty and not wasteful, and guide children to make reasonable use of New Year's money, such as: do some meaningful public welfare activities, cultivate children's love, etc. It is necessary to integrate the virtue of frugality into our lives, and trust that our children will break the bad habit of waste

Finally, I wish you all good luck and success Tashi Delek!

　

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